Being human is not an easy task…But it’s sure worth it.

Relationship advice? But where did it all start?

I remember..

T’was such a perfect time… hurrying up outside to make the most of a nice summer day, not having a care. Beautiful! As kids we didn’t try to live, instead all we used to do every day was trying to push ourselves to exhaustion, wasting every single drop of energy until we were ready to go to bed…

Boy … what times! …It was perfect. But more important: I wasn’t in need of any relationship advice!

I remember about it and I cry! Really! I’m never ashamed of exposing my feelings. Why should I? I cry because I feel that a part from me died as timed passed by, making me older. There was something I left behind… something that every human being seeks to regain … my childhood spirit.

Later… things got complicated because life’s rules say so. I imagine myself saying: “OK… Let’s see what you got!””Let’s see …c’mon!”

Now when I think about all those that have past… something tells me that life is beautiful and worth living every single moment from it! Something tells me that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger … and stronger… and stronger… up to that point when all the tears left inside of your eyes are actually only for happiness…

I’m not trying to get sentimental. But, my friend, I’m telling it like it is! My relationship advice comes from my experience…

Later… after a golden period from my life (childhood), absorbing from the consequences of every up and down, came a time in my life when questions started to gather in my mind.

You know… the more curious you are, a lot of things you will discover! Sure that this is going to leave a sour taste sometimes, but it can be sweet also or even tasteless.

But in the end… you’re going to taste a much more satisfying flavor: knowledge, experience, the “been there done that” feeling or in one word: you’re gonna taste… LIFE!

Eventually you get used to it… 🙂 (as we will see, the “getting used to it” feeling has two functions: one is to let you know that nothing that’s “nice” lasts due to ability of human to “get bored sooner or later”; the other function is to inform you that what ever it is that happened to you and messed with your head or soul, sooner or later it will become a perfectly trivial point in your history that contributed to what you are now.)

Later… while we were carrying out our daily activities (with ups and downs as usual) … something… an unknown entity filled our body (some felt it suddenly, others over time). A new sensation.

A kind of warm storm got our heads dizzy in a pleasant way. Acceptance was the first reaction from us. Curiosity said: Go on! See what this is about… walk forward!

Here comes the inner optimistic self again:”Ok… Let’s see what you got! I’m so curious I cannot sleep at night!”

Little did anybody knew… walking forward only meant going straight into a mysterious luring mist (one of life’s way of telling us… “I’m the boss, you chose to live now do as I say!” …and you go with the flow cause your mesmerized,your softer now).

What is it?

What turns life upside down and get’s away with it?

As we walked forward into the warm mist… the new feeling began to grow inside of us. Blood from veins was now a carrier of this new “friendly” virus.

What could be this sweet an yet unknown to our minds?

Well…

Love invades everybody’s mind and soul! It’s only a matter of time… and then I slowly began to find myself in a little need of relationship advice, being only human…

Whether it’s the love for a cause, for your country, for your girlfriend/boyfriend, for your pet, for your hobby, for your obsession, your parents, yourself, the universe, god, or anything else…

Love is truly a wonderful feeling that human beings are so lucky to experience in their lives.

But a time for love… means also a time for relationship advice!? … indeed.

Chemically associated with the sensation of eating chocolate, this feeling is second, generally speaking, after that of fear.

As all aspects that put together this life of ours, love proved to have its ups and downs since forever. Of course there will be tough love in one’s life… overwhelming love? That’s life, that’s being human.

And this is my relationship advice to you: